Under these current set of circumstances, i don't feel oleander is obligated to tell estevez about his sexual dealings with waldren and this is to remain the case, until such time as estevez tells andy that estevez wants to be in a sexually-monogamous relationship with oleander, but oleander dissents to this arrangement However: this would still leave a bit of an inequality - our golden retriever getting more play than stinky boy
Surprise twist: estevez requests andy to be his 'scene' partner